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You have to wonder why?

Discussion in 'Personal' started by lexus300, Jun 6, 2020.

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  1. lexus300

    lexus300 Star commenter

  2. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

  3. peakster

    peakster Star commenter

    Why - do you want some tips ?
  4. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    Tips on what? Aimed at who?
  5. Scintillant

    Scintillant Star commenter

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  6. Jude Fawley

    Jude Fawley Star commenter

    Grooming gangs aren't just raping young people, they are grooming them and using them to recruit other young people and children.
    The "grooming" aspect is central to their operation. These gangs farm children out to each other over wide geographical areas.

    Raping young people and children isn't the full story with these gangs. This isn't just opportune rape, it is the systematic organised use and traffic of young people and children by established networks of adults assisted by young people and children they have groomed into their network to procure other young people and children to gang rape and abuse.
  7. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    I'm not disputing that... it's the use of the word "grooming" to describe it I have an issue with. It both traduces the word "grooming" while, to me, sanitises the narrative.
  8. Scintillant

    Scintillant Star commenter

    If you read your own link, you wouldn't have needed to post the thread.

    But then you wouldn't be able to have another go at muslims.
  9. Scintillant

    Scintillant Star commenter

    Culture, race, nationality or religion? All have got a hearing there...

    Some people just don't know what they don't like.
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  10. Scintillant

    Scintillant Star commenter

    You said:

    What is the religion you refer to above?

    1) Judaism?
    2) Islam?
    3) Christianity?
    4) Hinduism?
    5) Shintoism?
    monicabilongame and safnor like this.
  11. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    Any explanation?
  12. safnor

    safnor New commenter

    Are suggestive hate threads A regular occurrence on this forum ?
    LiamD, nick909, theworm123 and 5 others like this.
  13. sbkrobson

    sbkrobson Star commenter

    What a truly awful thread of denouncement devoid of resolution.
    Undiluted dislike and hatred, as if it were an end in itself.
  14. Scintillant

    Scintillant Star commenter

    They're not unknown...
  15. sbkrobson

    sbkrobson Star commenter

    It is fear of that which is not oneself.
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  16. Jude Fawley

    Jude Fawley Star commenter

    Grooming, as in all species, is a form of bonding. Animals groom each other to show their desire to connect and maintain a bond.

    Likewise, grooming as in the exploitation of minors, is a method by which the adult gains the trust of the younger person: this until they horrifically abuse them.

    The rape and abuse of young people and children is beyond comprehension and deeply wounding. A part of this process and an ongoing cause of distress and confusion is the fact that a bond has been formed. The young person or child believes this bond to be genuine while the abuser knows it to be merely a method by which to gain their trust.

    So often the person who has been abused is traumatised as much by the breaking of trust as the physical assault.

    This is what then causes the years of distress and confusion and often a self-hatred due to being unable to comprehend what has happened to them.

    So, I would say the grooming element is crucial in the playing out of the abuse.
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  17. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    Well that made zero sense except for your usual poor skills of projection.
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  18. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    And again, post anything to Scintillant, he reports the post.
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  19. sbkrobson

    sbkrobson Star commenter

    There was nothing personal intended in what I wrote, so it's a shame you feel the need to resort to snideness and personal digs as a chosen response. Snippy.
    If, as you indicate, you don't know what my post meant, there is always the option of asking "what do you mean by this?". Or the technological option of the "ignore" function.
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  20. nomad

    nomad Star commenter

    it could be any where there are religiously derived legal codes including Jewish halakha, Islamic sharia, Christian canon law and Hindu law which refers to the code of laws applied to Hindus, Buddhists, Jains and Sikhs in British India.
    Kandahar likes this.
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