Dear Rosie How many more evil Heads are there? More than I ever believed possible, I'm afarid and,worse, LAs that know exactly what they are like but are prepared to cover for them . By and large they get away with it because victims are too worn down and traumatised to fight back. There0are ways of doing so, however. I am c urrently in the midst of a legal claim for harassment against my Head. It's not easy; it's long-winded and it'snot the besdt thing for everybody. Yet the more these evil people are properly held to account, the easier it will be for those who follow. Eventually they might just get the message that it isn't worth attempting to bully anyone. I wanted to reassure you that the way you are feeling is absolutely 'normal' given what you are going through - the short term memory loss et al. I am happy to share my experience and learning with anyone in a similar position. Do get in contact if you think it might help.