Just split from OH - was thinking of it for some time but then found out he's being having an affair - relationship over - living seperately for a few weeks. Just dropped child off at OHs house for contact to find the woman he's being having an affair with sitting outside the house waiting for him. Obviously child and her are meeting tonight. I am devastated about this. I can't stop crying. Can't rationalise these feelings at all. Never seen her before and it turns out she's everything I am not. Slim, pretty, younger. I'm in bits.