I work in a nursery and really enjoy my job, I have been there over 5yrs now. But a family member who has caused alot of trouble for me in my private life now wants to put her child in my class. Unfortunately the trouble has been going on for along time and I have lost the abusive texts off my phone from her. Do I have any rights, I feel physically sick at the thought of seeing the child and parents every day. Is it up to the owner, can they say no or can Ofted insist on the place being made available. I have told the head I will leave, but need to know if this is likely to happen as I need to have a job.