90+ hours a week work load in term time, while being constantly chastised for not working hard enough. regular nights when I didn't have time to go to bed. Never having time for a meal or conversation with my teenagers, during term time. I left when my youngest was doing GCSEs, as they needed me and I had no time even for passing "hello, how has your day been?" i returned when the youngest left home, and the workload is still a killer, but never more than 80 hours a week in my current job and I would leave immediately if it got worse.