Some of you may remember that I have been agonising about leaving/divorcing my husband for some time. Today i found out that he has been having an affair. I have confronted him about it and after some mild denials he admitted it. He says he has been unhappy for ages too. We have agreed to split but don't know the details yet. I feel strange. Relieved but angry. Its all very odd and calm. I don't know what to do next.Any advice welcome.