At the end of the last three years a disgruntled parent (not the same one) has used the PTA to organise an off site event which is designed to undermine the school and humiliate me personally. I find myself excluded from the invite and my staff are put in an awkward situation. Has anyone else had problems with their PTA organising events & not consulting them? They are not for fundraising purposes & sometimes I wonder how other parents would feel if they knew how their hard earned cash was being spent. Parents are largely unaware that these events are happening without the school being advised. I am going to revisit the constitution and spell it out at the AGM about liaising with me before organising anything in the future. I can't dictate to them how they spend the money but I'm not convinced they are doing the best for the children. Should I ask my COG to come to the meeting too? It was another upsetting and stressful end to a term where I had to just keep quiet and be professional. Any advice would be helpful. I'm really not a control freak, this has malicious intentions with an element of bullying.