My kids are at their Dad's and have invited me to dinner. They also mentioned that the new stereo (compromise, as they will not be getting the wished for telly in their room) is only allowed in their room if it is tidy (good one, ex). I am wondering if there is a link between the invite and the tidying? Not that I think my children are in any way devious, of course. I did ask if I would be able to see the floor and I was asked "what time will you be here?"