Typical OP post - "My husband/boyfriend/male friend/casual male acquaintance... overslept made himself a cup of tea and didn't make me one farted in bed looked at a **** web site didn't tell me he loved me this morning looked at another woman reads Playboy watches football on the box doesn't want to spend £2000 on a diamond ring for me doesn't want to get a job in China so I can be on my own in the UK (yeah - real one that!) etc." Standard TES Poster's response on Personal - "The ***! Dump him. Think of your own happiness! Get rid of him! Boil his rabbit! Etc."