Rossi - our bedtime routine when Tiddles was little: Turn lights down low and put same music on. I bought a CD of sleepy music from Woolies but anything New Age and soporific does the trick. Bath baby. We found that a bucket was better than a bath for number 3 but both the others were fine in a bath. Use one of those bath supports so that you're not worried about dropping wriggly little wet eel. Take baby upstairs and place on bed which has been liberally sprayed with lavender water. Massage with olive oil listening to another quiet restful bit of hippy music. Feed. Put baby in bed. Escape.