Any advice? 9 month old on the 75th centile so not small and breastfeeding but having 3 good meals a day. Still getting up 3 times a night to feed/placate/ponder on how to get her to sleep through. Won't take a bottle. I dread controlled crying but I really am desperate. The hv advocates cc but no other real solutions for me.i have had one nights sleep in 9 months! i do have issues AROUND HER crying as she was very ill when born and i associate her crying with being in pain and don't ever let her cry really. i am there like a shot day and night but it's taking it's toll and frankly i am pretty miserable which is such a shame for both of us and my partner. She is teething but not unhappy i don't think. v cheerful in the day, 3 regular naps in the day and when she wakes at night doesn't really want to feed anymore but breaks off to 'chat' (I try to ignore!). I'm so tired I feel ill and actually fell over today! it is a beautiful day but all i can think about is when i can go to bed next. Nights hVE ALWAYS BEEN MY DOMAIN. Partner has v physical job with dangerous machinery and early starts so it's always been like this but I am getting very resentful and back to work in 3 mnoths which i cannot do on this little sleep. Heeeeellllllllllp i am going insane.