I agree with Mandala. Surely learning to use the toilet is part of pre school education? Also lots of children do not magically train by 3 and even if they are trained will still have the odd 'aiming' issue. Also my 3 year old still has help with bottom wiping, they are just babies. I think I've been spoilt by my daughter's nursery being really supportive and helpful with toilet training. That said I it is a bit off Giraffe not even trying and waiting until they start a new nursery at 3!