Every other day the teacher is pulling back parents at home time with comments such as Jack isn't concentrating at group time. Noah giggled with neighbour today when i read a story. During independent learning Jonnie doesn't put his toys away, or plays with toys as he wants. Can i just say i feel totally frustrated. Is this really 'naughty' behaviour. I refuse to tell my 4.5 year old off for not concentrating. Pointless. Yes i can play games to encourage certain behaviours but surely some of this is down to the teacher. Is it really necessary and common to keep informing parents of these types of behaviours. It just causes strain at home, certainly between my husband and myself. I'm worried that my son is in class where the teacher can't teach boys!!! What do you think?