Hi Everyone, I dumped my ex-boyfriend just before Christmas after he disappeared for a couple of days when he was supposed to be staying with me - quite a long story! People on here were great so I hope you don't mind my asking for your advice once again. Anyway, I've only seen him once since then when he came to pick up some belongings that he had left in my flat. It was quite friendly and we had a chat, during which he talked about time in prison. Apparently he had been 'falsely' accused of hitting an ex. He does have quite an explosive temper and argues with everbody - bosses, friends, and me when we were still together. Anyway, I didn't express any disbelief, merely expressed sympathy. I didn't hear from him again but last night at 11pm when I was in bed the buzzer of my flat went. I looked on the security screen and it was him so I ignored it and switched the buzzer off. It looked like he had turned away but a few minutes later there was a knocking the front door of my flat. He must have rung a neighbour's buzzer to gain access to the block. Fortunately, I'd switched the lights off so I just kept quiet. I heard the letter box open but then he went away. When I went out to my car this morning I found that the driver's door and the rear passenger door have both got huge dents in them with footprints in the middle. I think he must have gone and given my car a good kicking because I wouldn't let him in. I'm in the middle of reporting this to the police online but have stopped as I'm not sure it's the right thing to do. Although I strongly suspect it was him, my car has been damaged in the car park before and I obviously have no proof that it was him. Also, I'm probably being a terrible wimp but I live alone and don't particularly want to be worried about him coming back to complain about me giving his name to the police. I'm already sitting here with phone within reach, all the curtains closed and the door bolted with the chain on. Any advice will be gratefully received...so sorry for long post.