My daughter (adopted) came home 4 months ago. The foster carers were absolutely amazing and cared so much and my daughter really is like family to them. On the last day of intros they were very emotional, their hearts were breaking as they hugged and waved to my daughter. We have been keeping in touch with them since, sending them photos etc. we usually text each other every few days, my daughter has had video calls with them. We are hoping to meet up with them next week. My daughter was with them for 4 years so they are a huge part of her life. Suddenly this morning my mum has said I should completely cut the foster carers off and not talk to them or let them or my daughter see each other again. I am doing the right thing by staying in touch like this aren't I? I personally feel I am but my mum has made me doubt myself now.