Inspired by an episode of the endlessly trashy but totally entertaining 'Sex and the City'. I was recently married and despite basically living together in what WAS my flat for a year we have now properly moved all of his stuff into the flat from his placec and are renting his place out, so it's full time sharing now (you should see the mess, a one-bedroomed flat is just not big enough for all our stuff!) But before this happened, we would have certain nights when he didn't stay over; work commitments meaning he would stay over at his place some 20 miles away, or when he would have the lads over for a boozy night at his own flat. Now, he's always there. And there are certain things that I used to do in the privacy and peace of my own flat that I just don't do when he's a round. This is, according to Carrie et all, known as Secret Single Behaviour. I'm sure some people have those wonderful relationships where they'd so anything in front of their partner, but I'm talking about those things you liked to do when there's no-one else around and you can just be on your own. For example, I like to bake late at night. I put my music on, dance about the kitchen like a nutcase and bake cakes or scones for coffee time the next day. Not that I couldn't bake whilst my husband is there, but it just doesn't feel as nice as doing it whilst all on my own. Or a pamper day. When I'm off work, I like to have a day when I just laze about the house with a face mask on, read a book, paint my nails and toe nails, apply body butter all over and generall pamper myself. Again, not something I wouldn't do whilst hubby is there, but just not as nice! Poor bloke! So, what is your Secret Single Behaviour?