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Scream if like me you are feeling grumpy

Discussion in 'Personal' started by delmamerchant, Oct 14, 2017.

  1. calamansi

    calamansi Lead commenter

    Orlrider, the Jeremy Bulger.stuff must have been harrowing. But you chose to do that course.
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  2. calamansi

    calamansi Lead commenter

    Is nobody going to try to cheer the OP up? you're a load of old miserablists.
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  3. Lara mfl 05

    Lara mfl 05 Star commenter

    Me too! :( What has become of our society? Too wrapped up in cotton wool.
  4. colpee

    colpee Star commenter

    This should cheer you up -
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  5. Orkrider2

    Orkrider2 Star commenter

    Well, really I chose to do a masters in psychology. Of the optional modules, I chose forensic psychology because I felt it was more appropriate for my desired career direction than the others available. Of those 12 lectures, only two - the youth offenders and the forensic profiling ones - used harrowing details of specific crimes as case studies. The trigger warnings meant that I didn't have to can an entire module for the sake of a small fraction of the subject matter covered and meant I all the other interesting stuff on the psychology of reparative justice etc was still available to me. I'm never going to be a forensic psychologist, but some of the other info covered was very pertinent to what I want to do.

    I imagine it's similar in other courses. Students have no control over what is covered in each module, but that doesn't mean that people can't be a bit sensitive to the fact that some bits are more harrowing than others. And besides, no one is talking about skipping them or leaving them out, just giving people a heads up that a particular topic is coming up.
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  6. needabreak

    needabreak Star commenter

    Too busy competing for the title of head TES grump and forgetting it's the weekend and we are all still alive! :D:D:D *apologies to anyone in advance whose had a recent bereavement as I may sound flippant... But I'm not.

    Just remember Del that negativity is contagious and in our profession we really can't let it get hold. Besides there's always someone worse off.

    This is for you... It's a good tack tick for self preservation.

    Smile though your... etc.;):)
  7. george1963

    george1963 Occasional commenter

    I'm offended by jazz hands. I request we have completely silent lectures, lessons and assemblies ;) Less trauma :)
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  8. nomad

    nomad Star commenter

    You are so affected by accounts of violence and yet you study forensic psychology???


    Does not compute!
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  9. lizziescat

    lizziescat Star commenter

    I think that's what everyone does.
    In my last school it was 'last level given +1 sub level.
    No one used the data (no one knew what it meant) so no harm done and teachers could then get back to .... well....... teaching.
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  10. lizziescat

    lizziescat Star commenter


    I didn't realise I was doing something so controversial when I had to teach RE (option subject -so people 'knew' what they were getting). This covered topics of suicide, euthanasia (and thus progressive illnesses) divorce and torture. Of course I 'signposted'** potential sensitivities (and allowed opt out if necessary)

    ** it wasn't called that back then. It was just being aware of people's possible experiences.
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  11. Lara mfl 05

    Lara mfl 05 Star commenter

    This just goes to illustrate how useless data can be. :rolleyes:
    Data for data's sake is worth nothing, as opposed to the relevant and useful data which most teachers cover during the normal course of their teaching.
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  12. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    Precisely... I never use it! I have my own stuff I use to track the rotters but the data the school wants is not it.

    UTTERLY useless...
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  13. Yoda-

    Yoda- Lead commenter

  14. Calpurnia99

    Calpurnia99 Star commenter

    #orkrider2 - do you recognise that you've fallen a bit outside the usual range of reactions to other people's tragedies? Do you think you could get out of jury service if you told them you found acounts of violence upsetting?
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  15. Calpurnia99

    Calpurnia99 Star commenter

    @lanokia et al - data is my job now (i hate it). Nothing I input via over-stretched staff affects teaching and learning. It's all for the DfE, Ofsted, public reputation, ass-covering for SLT and the greater glory of the head. If the latter two don't like what's there, I have to do it again.
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  16. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    Just makes it worse for me Cal! Way I see it, if it isn't helping teaching and learning I'm not interested.
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  17. magic surf bus

    magic surf bus Star commenter

    I was sat in a busy restaurant on Friday evening and I was the only person I could see who didn't use a mobile phone at any point during their time in there, apart from a tiny infant child. What is it with this desperate urge to be permanently connected to something else all the time? What's so bloody wrong with the here and now?

    I despair of my fellow humans at times.
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  18. grumpydogwoman

    grumpydogwoman Star commenter

    Maybe this will alleviate the grumps for 2 minutes.

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  19. lanokia

    lanokia Star commenter

    Because our lives are hollow and empty of course.


  20. red_observer

    red_observer Star commenter

    I quite like being grumpy... ;)
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