What to do? So my son is marrying a Russian from Siberia who is now here. She eats bones and gristle and yet is tiny compared to my offspring. (five three and six four) The vegans are probably not going to like it. Shall I just have two weddings one for meat eaters and one for not? Or just forget to go except to the registry office? The latter I think, and I do enjoy a few ribs myself, if I'm honest. What does one do in the face of such diversity? Run away probably.