Need some advice - this is my first residential and I'm supposed to be leading. We couldn't get the usual accommodation and subsequently have only one leaders room. Is it reasonable to say no to both of us being in same room? Other options are that one of us sleeps in the dorm with the kids. Equally unhappy whether it's me or other leader as leaves us both open to allegations. Thinking about withdrawing completely. Is that unreasonable? What advice can you offer me?