Broke up with my ex about 3 months ago, my decision and it was the right one. Since then I have had a bit of a flirtation with someone from work which naturally fizzled out (for the best!) and have been seeing someone new for a few weeks. Things were a little odd with the guy I am seeing this evening, may be all over and done, may not be. The bigger issue is that in the past 12yrs I have been single no longer than about 2 months, one 2yr (ish) relationship to the next. I now live on my own away from friends and family (moved up because of now ex!) and realise that I need to deal with the possibility of being on my own. So......please can I have reasons why being manless/single is a good thing preferably without things about seeing friends more because that is not really an option!