Hi, I started my NQT year in feb 2011, and I have 3 chidren already but hubby and I have decided to have one more. I dont want to leave a big gap between my children, as my youngest is going to be 5 this year. I want to start trying in January 2012, but I feel even then it may be to soon. I feel really guilty planning this. I am worried about what the head will say, how the other members of staff will react.I also want to take a year of, as I feel the first year is the most important. Do you think I am being selfish? Should I leave it for a few years? Sohuld I return back to work sooner?