My first son is due to start preschool in Sept ( he will be2 and a half). He is not potty trained yet. Obviously it's only about 6 weeks though and he doesn't seem to want to sit on a potty. Trouble is they won't take kids unless they are totally dry and in normal pants, trainer pants not allowed. What do I do? I don't want to rush and stress him, and lots of my friends withboys and some with girls say they weren't properly dry till 3 years. But I will lose the deposit I had to pay, and due to losing my job in the cuts etc can't really afford to waste it, and I might not find a place at any other preschool at this point. I didn't know until a new parents evning last week that this preschool insists on them being dry, otherwise I might have thought twice before enrolling him. What's best for him's what matters, if I end up losing the money and having to stay at home with him that's how it is, I'm not stressing him just to force him to comply, but any advice?