I have never really had a boyfriend or anything so joined match.com. Went on my second date with this guy last night, was ok but didn't feel anything but we did get on so I was thinking that I probably wouldn't go out again. Anyway today he text to say he had something he wanted to say last night but couldn't so he said he would do it by text as it was easier. Turns out he has just been told he has cancer. Now how do I respond? I don't particularly want to go out again but at the same time don't want to make things worse for him, but don't want to lead him on. Argh! any advice?