Hi, recently i have had some difficulties at work concerning another member of staff who is senior to me. Although i didnt intend to (as the head can be difficult), i ended up telling the head how i felt about the situation. I then, on her advice, addressed it 1-1 with the person and reported back to the head as i was asked to. I told the head that i did not want the matter taken any further and that i felt confident knowing that the head now knew about the situation, that things would improve. She agreed and even went on to adivse me of what to say and do in the future should a similar situation arise. I was happy with this and drew a line under the event. However, the head has now called a meeting between herself, me and the individual concerned. Can i refuse to go seeing as i made it clear i wanted no further action taken?