rb - he's never been willing to leave, as such...he was the first one to bring things up, but he didn't want to leave straight away because he wants to work on things...otherwise he'd have gone by now. He still loves me. I still love him. Is that enough? Dudess - I have no shortage of male attention when I'm out! When I'm with my partner, he gets angry with it. When I'm with my neighbour/another girly friend and I mention it when I get home, he doesn't care about it, or says "why are you telling me?" Mentorist and Pip - I know.