I am being plauged with Nightmares about christmas! The main one is christmas day, where my mother expects the 4 of us to do a 120 mile round trip for christmas dinner. I daren't tell her that we don't want to do that - the kids were excited about seeing their cousins, until the realised how far they were going to have to go. Its not like we have nice comfy car to go in (an 8yr old 1l Yaris) my husband is admant we are not going, and I agree, but I dread telling my mother. She isn't going to be happy and come up with all these solutions like staying at their house, which again, my husband won't do. (hes a right grumpy one at christmas, he has no family other than a brother) Last night I dreamed that we missed most of our kids nativity - they simply missed a bit out and we didn't get to photgraph them at the end. I really wish it were next year! Anyone else have this problem? I highly doubt it!