At the risk of being controversial, there aren't half a lot of "needy" posts on here. We all have problems; money, health, psychological (I'll ignore the political). I have some of the above, but I ain't going for faux sympathy, I just get on with it with the family motto "Stoicus et pragmatica" which probably does not translate, but some of you might get the gist. Being of (proper) working class origin and old enough we were just taught to "get on with it" or in todays parlance "suck it up". Cue backlash. PS Lost cat does not count, they do their own thing.