6 weeks ago I asked my husband to leave after I found out he'd had a 2 week affair. He did saying he needed to have some time to think and a week later he moved into a rented house and the woman moved in as well ! Things have been understandably tense between us and now he,s not arranging to see our 3 boys. But I have days where I can happily call him every name under the sun and feel ok about being on my own. But I have days like today when I feel low and miss him ... Help needed .