I have been seeing a guy for 6 months now. He is divorced 9 years and has an 11 year old daughter. He decided to end the marriage when his daughter was only a few months old. He said he left because his long commute to work every day became draining and put pressure on his marriage. He said ex his wife did nothing wrong. His ex wife met her new partner not long after the split at work. Sadly he passed away a few months ago. It has been known for a few years that he would eventually pass away because of his illness. His ex wife lives a couple of hours away so he has to travel to see his daughter approx once every two weeks during one day of the weekend. Before his ex wife's partner died, he told me that she would make cook for them all and they would all sit round having Sunday dinner - my boyfriend, his daughter, the ex wife and her partner. When I first starting seeing him, that didn't bother me at all. However now the partner has passed away, I feel uneasy about the whole thing. It makes me feel very insecure that he spends some Sundays in the house with his daughter and ex wife and they still have dinner together. When he is there, there is no communication with me via text. When I have asked about his ex wife, he told me he no longer finds her attractive and in fact never did. I find this hard to believe if he married her and had a child with her. Surely there must have been some attraction. Am I right to feel insecure or am I being selfish? I do wonder if he has regrets leaving his marriage. Not sure I want to continue with this relationship when I feel this way every time he goes off to see his daughter and ex wife. Any advice appreciated!