Sorry but had to get this off my chest. Just went into the downstairs loo - mum had been in there before me - to find sh*t all over the toilet seat, up the walls, on the sink, taps, soap etc. I almost had a fit. It took me half an hour to clean it all up. Had to use dettol disinfectant wipes and bleach but coz I have no loo brush i had to clean it all up "manually". Also, couldnt find my wretched rubber gloves so had to do it without. Tried flushing the wipes down the loo but they wouldnt flush so had to fish them out with bare hands. I've scrubbed and scrubbed my hands but dont feel I will ever be clean again after this. For the life of me, I dont know how my mum cannot see this mess that she's left. I also cannot believe that she "doesn't have dementia" as I've been told time and time again by the memory clinic. She seems to inhabit a different planet to the rest of us most of the time. Talking of memory clinics, she has another appointment next week. This time, it will be at a different place as she has moved in with us and no longer lives in Essex. It will be very interesting to here their verdict. I hope I can talk to them about this toilet business but when I've been previously, I havent had a chance to speak to them alone i.e mum is always there. Apologies if this has made you feel ill - you can imagine how it made me feel!!! I just thank God my husband or daughter weren't the ones who discovered this mess. Rant over.