and it's sort of left me on my own, i still like them and (i think!) they still like me, but they have all now moved in with their boyfriends, some are married and some have children or are pregnant. it's not that i begrudge them, i don't, but it has left me in a difficult position (i'm saying this here because obviously i can't in real life) as no one wants to do anything or go anywhere. i finally met up with one friend for a coffee yesterday but she was quite moody and we struggled for things to talk about. i don't know what the answer is, i suppose i need to move in with a boyfriend of my own but i'm permanently single so that's not gonna happen! and so with no boyfriend and now very few friends i'm really lonely a lot of the time. has anyone ever been through this, what did you do? also, and its a change of subject in a way but it's something that's starting to dawn on me, what if i start to approach the end of child bearing years and am still single, i know its a while off but i'm wondering about it a lot lately.