and is feeling really traumatized by the experience. I want to help her see thet she did exactly what she should have done in that she was about to start CPR but the swimming instructor got there just in time. The young boy seemed conscious by the time he was taken in the ambulance but she is giving herself a really hard time thinking she could have done more. She is a lovely person but just isn't seeing that she did all she could. Any advice or words of wisdom?