I'm looking for some advice really as I feel I am totally failing as a mother. My daughter is 5 weeks old now and seems to hate me all she does is cry when I hold her but she will settle straight away when passed to her dad or my mum, I've tried copying what they do but it just doesn't settle her and the longer I try the more distressed she gets. Has anyone else ever been in this situation or felt like this? I feel like such a failure. I love my daughter more than anything in the world and it's breaking my heart to see her so upset all the time.