Dear all, hope you can help! I am currently working as a primary teacher in a very tough school in Yorkshire. I have only been qualified since July 2010 so came as an nqt when the school was put into special measures. The school is still in the category and we are under immense pressure from the LA, ofsted and management. All the staff are feeling the strain and there is a very negative atmosphere. I would like to start a fresh and have begun looking at jobs all around the country and in particular private schools. My boyfriend lives in the next City from mine and has said that if I want to move further away our relationship is over because he cannot cope with a longer distance than we already have to travel to see each other. I have said I am only looking at this stage and that does not guarantee getting a job or where it'll be but he has said this is selfish and I'll just be putting him through agony until I finally go. I know I am lucky to have a job currently and know how tricky it is to get a new job at the moment so don't think it's worth worrying about yet but he wants to break up simply because I'm considering going further afield. Thoughts please?