I have been offered a job in an independent school - it means working about 60 hours a week and moving house and uprooting the family. My wife will have to give up her job and might not find a job quickly in a small town. or I could simply get a job as a TA my wife working as a TA, my daughter happy in school and I could get about the same money. There is no real financial reason to go but it would advance my career. What would you do? Should I go and advance my career or should I give up on career and work less.