My MIL has been on several holidays to Tunisia over the last year due to her friend getting married over there (wedding didn't happen until 3rd time lucky due to paperwork problems.) The last time she came back she told us that she was getting a divorce which we were taken a back by - then she says it's so she can remarry someone she's been seeing for a year in Tunisia! At this stage though it wasn't a final decision. She called us from Tunisia last week to say that she definitely is and I think it's just mad! We are the only people to know, my partners siblings haven't been told officially yet. She comes back from her trip tonight so we might get a little information. I just can't even begin to fathom what this is going to do to the family as a whole. My SIL is just about to give her her first grandchild, my partner's little sister is only 18 and still lives at home. She'll be leaving her elderly mother at home too. She says that it's something that she just has to do to be happy now that all of her children are paired off and settled but I think it's a mid life crisis! MIL says she will have to go over there for up to a month at a time then god knows what will happen when they are actually married. Is it bad that I just automatically assume that he is a visa chaser?! In all of this talk of it she hasn't even mentioned her husband once - I don't even know if he knows!! To top it off she lives off of her benefits! I wish I could blimmin' afford 4 holidays a year!!! Just needed to rant!