I'm on an informal support programme at work, which as fasr as I am aware, only the HT & I know about, but I don't feel like the programme is very supportive at the moment. I've done all the things that have been asked of me; I asked for a review meeting and was told it would happen after half term, but that date has now been cancelled with no sign of a new one. I had my observation last week and was observed by the HT & assistant head together. I've still not had my feedback. Paranoia has now set in. They were in the HT's office for a good hour or more after school the day of my ob, and I have convinced myself they were talking about me, and that the content wasn't good. I've now found out that the AHT was observing as part of her own CPD, and that she will be sitting in on my observation feedback session. I'm very close to asking for her not to be there, as surely my observation data should be confidential between me & my observer? Can I request the AHT is not present?