Just need a bit of a rant...sorry in advance! I've done everything by the book...had no contact for 6 months, deleted him from facebook, the lot! But yet he still keeps turning up in my thoughts! I wouldn't mind, but we never really had a proper relationship, he was a love rat and I should have known better! I met a lovely guy a couple of weeks ago who I think I could like (nothing more than texting yet as I've been away), but now I'm thinking maybe I should back off. I have no intention of ever going anywhere near the love rat again and wish he could disappear from my thoughts, but he's still there! Grrrrrrrr! Has anyone else been in this situation where they just cannot explain whats going on in their head?!