I found out on Wednesday that I'm pregnant (roughly 6 weeks gone.) I should be over the moon but it wasn't planned and I just don't know how I feel about it! I'm 39, divorced and have 2 children aged 16 and 14. I've only been with my current partner since January and we've never discussed having children as I don't think we're really 'there' yet. He also has 2 children, so we've been happy as we are. We don't even live together, so it seems as though we're in no position to have a child! I never ever thought I would contemplate having an abortion, but the thought keeps creeping into my mind and now it won't go away. Then I think about the fact that my first child wasn't planned either and, if I'd had an abortion, I wouldn't have my beautiful daughter today. I've been trying to convince myself that keeping the baby if the best option but, if it really is the best option, should I even need to convince myself? Some of the pros would be that I'd love the child so much and I'm ok financially on my own if the dad didn't want be involved but, I'm wondering if the cons (we're not in a stable relationship, we're both 'older', we've both never pictured spending the next 18+ years together bringing up another child) outweigh the pros? I know that no-one on here can make my decision for me, but I've got no-one to talk to IRL and my partner has said that he'll support my decision either way - which is making it even more difficult as I don't know what he really wants to do. Any advice or reassurance that we could make this work would be amazing right now!