On acouple of other parenting forums I use people are often called judgemental when they offer advice. Sometimes the posts sound quite judgy but most of the time they just sound like people offering advice that is not the normal "you do whatever you think is right". For example anyone who suggests that you should be following SIDS guidelines is automatically judgemental, or anyone who recommends waiting a bit longer before weaning a 6 week old baby is called judgemental. Do you think there are actually many mothers who are judging others? Or are most of them just like me and are not judging as I'm too busy taking care of my own kids?