moscowbore is right, lianaanthony. It is a question of your personal safety. You should not be using your own photo and you should find yourself a pseudonym asap. Of course, people have said to me, "Why are you using your own photo on the TES? Do you really want people to know that you are a hippopotamus?" Yes, it is true that my wife was a bit upset when she saw my avatar, the picture of the two of us having a little chat in the bath. Maybe I will get round to changing it, one of these days.