(If you think you know my real username, please don't say it on this thread! Thank you.) Last night, my 16 year-old daughter told me that she's pregnant. I didn't even know she was having sex, so it's come as a huge shock for me. She wants to keep the baby and I don't know how she'll cope - she's only just left school. I tried not to get angry with her but, inside, I'm fuming and I really can't see the 'light at the end of the tunnel'. I've met the father of the baby and think he's a lovely boy, but I didn't realise that they were dating and now I feel so stupid! I've always told that she he could talk to me about sex. I've been open with her and we've always had a good relationship. I feel like such a bad parent for not knowing what she was up to. She's almost 15 weeks gone and has known for quite some time. How did I not notice? She's such a bright girl and could do so much with her life, so I worry that she'll always be held back. Are there any mums of teen parents on TES? I'd be so grateful if anyone could share their experiences and reassure me that it's not all doom and gloom! Thank you.