I wonder has anyone else felt like his since giving birth? LO is 4 months old, well nearly 5. He is immaculate, clean, so is the house, so are everyone's clothes....yet I look llike sh1t. I recently had my big toenails removed so I am not allowed to get the things wet which means baths are a proper mission, and hair has to be washed over the bath. My hair is snapping and frizzy and I am having horrid night sweats that means it needs to be dealt with every day, except I it takes too long to straighten, wash and dry it. Often, i am just throwing on jeans and a top and having one of the evil baths at night. It takes too much time to do my makeup and I have ridiculous bandages on my toes. I feel like I smell though I don't as I am bathing once a day. My skin is spotty and grey and I have a muffin top. I wonder if my OH still fancies me...I wouldn't!! And I always seem to meet people I know when looking like this and it is downright embarrassing. I didn't used to get all glammed up all the time by any mean but I know what people mean when they talk about women "letting themselves go." It just all seems like so much hassle and tim and i feel guilty if I am doing this when I could be playing with LO. Am knackered from perpetually scurrying round the house trying to get it all done so I crash out when LO has afternoon nap. I have a wobbly muffin top having been a size 10/12 before Archie and it looks pasty and foul, frankly. I am FED UP.