Hello all, I moved down south with my now ex-boyfriend in June 2008. I was doing teacher training, he was starting training in finance. We lived together until January 2010 when we split up. He split up with me, but looking back I can see why as, for some reason (still not quite sure why!), things weren't going well. I 'got over' it all about six months - 1 year later and am quite happy in own flat. I have a good job and have lots of lovely friends. I have recently been on 4 online dating dates, 1 of which went quite well and I am considering meeting him again. However, my ex announced it is likely that he will be moving to Australia in August. For some reason, I feel really upset and have spent quite a bit of today in tears. I just feel like everyone close to me leaves - my parents live a 7 hour flight away, my brother lives in China. When my ex and I split up, we always said "we'll see what happens in time". I have tried convincing myself many times I don't want to get back with him, and when I meet up with him (not very often, but we occasionally meet for coffee to catch up) I feel like breaking up was a good decision, but I'm now wondering whether I'm trying to convince myself not to like him in that way anymore. Should I tell him how I feel about him moving to Australia? I really shouldn't be so upset about it and I feel silly for feeling this way! Also, I keep comparing the dates I have been on to him. I know I shouldn't do this but I can't help it. I just don't know what to do.