Can anyone advise me? I've recently discovered (by accident) that my boyfriend has been 'making love' to women on a sex forum. It may only be 'virtual' sex but, to me, this is still a betrayal and I'm absolutely devastated. He describes in sickening detail what he is doing to them and becomes very intimate and even affectionate. He also tells one of these girls that he loves her and how special she is. He also writes to her in a Word document, building up this fantasy into something famazing. He tells her that she is beautiful and as he 'makes love' to her he stares into her beautiful bright blue eyes etc. He hasn't told me I'm beautiful or mentioned MY eyes for years. I really thought he loved me and only me. I just don't know what to do. PLEASE, has anyone else experienced something similar? Please?