Can I have a hug? Got some bloody awful news today- got diagnosed with cancer this morning and it's pretty near my armpit so God knows what they'll find after my referral next week. My other half's abroad till Thursday (I made him go-he can take next week off) and I'm not working so am going slowly nuts at home on my own. Youngest son (a v.young 16) is out- and at school daytime. Doesn't know yet. We aren't letting family know till more info on prognosis next week. It is going to be a lo-o-o-o-ong week.... (make it a gentle hug, I'm still a bit sore after all those squashings and needles last week) sorry it's a bit grim, I might be well treatable -just dunno yet..... I don't mind people trying to make me smile ....I feel more positive about it sometimes...up and down like a flamin yoyo! Just need to be distracted from all those endless 'what ifs' .