I don't think myself and the OH will get married and have kids. I haven't decided if I definitely want kids but if I do, I have decided it won't be with him. I've felt this way for a while and wondered what to do about it. Breaking up a relationship 'because it has no future' is such a cliche but it's kind of the right thing to do. I'm pretty sure we are just 'comfortable' in our relationship. We have never said we love each other and have been going out for just over a year now. Things that have happened or been said hint that he wouldn't want to live with me and again I doubt I'd be happy living with him either. I tried to broach this subject today but he laughed it off. The more I talk about this with my friends the more they say 'Shouldn't you just cut your losses?' or words to that effect. But how do you start that whole conversation? When is the right time? If it makes a difference, I'm 28 and he's 33. If you know some of the history between me and OH you will probably ask why I am still with him at all but please ignore that and just help me with this little dilemna. Thanks all.