Hi all, I have been with my partner for 6 years. We are happy together and thinking about getting engaged this year. He has a very good job in the chemical industry and I qualified as a teacher four years ago. I was made redundant from the prep school I was working at in July 2009 and have been finding it very difficult to get another job. I have done some supply teaching but I have had some really bad experience that have led me to question whether teaching is really made for me. I have come to the conclusion that I do not want to be a teacher anymore. I have tried to look at other options (including working from home) but every time I mention it to my partner he dismisses them and thinks I should stick to being a teacher because that is what I am qualified to do. I do have an interview on Tuesday at a comprehensive school and my boyfriend has already warned me that he expects me to take the job if offered. I understand the fact that he doesn't want me to stay at home all the time and would like me to have a career of my own but I think he should not be pressurising me the way he is doing (especially so as we are financially sound). I now feel that he is indirecty trying to control my life without realising it. What should I do? Advice very much required.