I don't know why I'm surprised and upset really. We've not had much contact since everything reached a head a few weeks ago and I said he needed to make up his mind what he wanted. I get little soppy texts saying he misses me etc but no phone calls and not seen him for three weeks. He's having his counselling sessions but I'm not sure if they're helping. I've turned 35 today. I left my phone at home as I couldn't bear to be checking it all day and then when I got home I had a message from him saying he's travelling up north. Nothing about my birthday. I texted to ask if he had remembered. He said he hadn't. I tried to call him but he didn't answer and texted to say he's on the train and can't speak. My friends are coming over soon as I have to admit to them that he's not only not here but that he forgot and hasn't sent a card, hasn't even called. I am not sure I can get any lower than this without dropping into a pit.