I am in that sticky situation again where I have met somebody who I really like who says he is not in the right place for a relationship. He plans to move for a promotion with his job in the very near future but it's uncertain as to where or when. At first I was happy just seeing where it goes, but after his last interview he started to become more distant. 4 days ago I told him this is not enough for me anymore and that we are clearly in different places. I'm trying my best to move on and doing all the things I should, but I can't get him out of my head. Just wondered if anyone else has been in this position? Male opinions welcome - have you ever told a girl that you don't want a relationship and realised that it was a mistake? If so, what made you realise it? Or does it always just mean that you don't want to be with that person?